Category: Devotion for Women

‘Praise the Lord , all you nations. Praise him, all you people of the earth. For his unfailing love for us is powerful; the Lord ’s faithfulness endures forever. Praise the Lord !’ Psalms 117:1-2(NLT)

‘“You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike. If you love only those who love you, what reward is there for that? Even corrupt tax collectors do that much. If you are kind only to your friends, how are you different from anyone else? Even pagans do that. ‘ Matthew 5:43-47(NLT)

‘You may think you can condemn such people, but you are just as bad, and you have no excuse! When you say they are wicked and should be punished, you are condemning yourself, for you who judge others do these very same things. And we know that God, in his justice, will punish anyone who does such things. Since you judge others for doing these things, why do you think you can avoid God’s judgment when you do the same things? Don’t you see how wonderfully kind, tolerant, and patient God is with you? Does this mean nothing to you? Can’t you see that his kindness is intended to turn you from your sin?’ Romans 2:1-4(NLT)

‘Always be full of joy in the Lord. I say it again—rejoice! Let everyone see that you are considerate in all you do. Remember, the Lord is coming soon.’ Philippians 4:4-5(NLT)

‘But the wisdom from above is first of all pure. It is also peace loving, gentle at all times, and willing to yield to others. It is full of mercy and the fruit of good deeds. It shows no favoritism and is always sincere. And those who are peacemakers will plant seeds of peace and reap a harvest of righteousness.’ James 3:17-18(NLT)

‘Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude. Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead, pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessing. For the Scriptures say, “If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies. Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace, and work to maintain it. The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right, and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turns his face against those who do evil.”’ 1 Peter 3:8-12(NLT)

“…Love is gentle and consistently kind to all….” 1 Corinthians 13:4 TPT

Loving with gentleness means conducting yourself with mildness and evenness of spirit. It is a display of love not found in extremes of emotion. 

Kindness is an action that elevates and honors another.

Kindness offered to another is a demonstration of the gentleness of our hearts. 

However, in our efforts to love others, it is the words consistently and all in this verse that stood out to me. It’s fairly easy to demonstrate love through kindness and gentleness with those who are easy to love. But difficult or annoying people? It’s not easy to consistently show love, and certainly not easy to demonstrate gentleness and kindness to them. In fact, it’s easier to withhold love, because our feelings tell us they certainly do not deserve it! 

Often, these difficult people live in our own homes, or maybe they are our direct report at work. Sometimes, they are even our enemy. When these people come against us in their immaturity or insecurity, or especially in their hatred, it’s easy to let unkind words and attitudes spill out. Our mildness of spirit—our gentleness—disappears in the conflict. 

In these moments we use love like dollar bills, handing them out when people are acceptable to us and snatching them back when our expectations are not met and we are disappointed. 

Are we demonstrating love through consistent kindness with our spouses, our kids, our parents or are we short-tempered? Are we gentle while we are driving or are we wildly gesturing and yelling? Are we courteous with the slow cashier at the store, the inattentive waiter at the restaurant, the salesperson on the phone, or to that person on the Internet?

Courtesy, a display of gentleness and kindness toward another, is an almost forgotten characteristic in our society today. The word is rooted in the ceremonial manners used in a royal court. High respect and consideration for those we live with or meet, especially those who are most difficult, are the appropriate qualities of sons and daughters of the Most High.

How can we consistently love those that grate against us? Why does God ask us to love unlovely people, even those who come against us? 

Consistently showing love through gentleness and kindness is only possible when we acknowledge the consistent love and grace our Father has lavished on us. He never holds back His love, even when we deserve it.

Psalm 117:2 TPT tells us that God’s kindness has melted our hearts. I know it has mine and I am so grateful. 

Let’s make it a practice to melt hearts with gentleness and kindness through our courtesy to others. God’s Spirit within us will enable that fruit to increase and grow.

Consider reading today’s scriptures from The Message. (MSG)

from Love Is a Person by Robin Meadows

‘If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing. Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud ‘ 1 Corinthians 13:1-4(NLT)

‘Live in harmony with each other. Don’t be too proud to enjoy the company of ordinary people. And don’t think you know it all!’ Romans 12:16(NLT)

‘May the Lord lead your hearts into a full understanding and expression of the love of God and the patient endurance that comes from Christ.’ 2 Thessalonians 3:5(NLT)

‘A servant of the Lord must not quarrel but must be kind to everyone, be able to teach, and be patient with difficult people. ‘ 2 Timothy 2:24(NLT)

‘Finally, all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with each other. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tenderhearted, and keep a humble attitude. ‘ 1 Peter 3:8(NLT)

‘The Lord isn’t really being slow about his promise, as some people think. No, he is being patient for your sake. He does not want anyone to be destroyed, but wants everyone to repent. ‘ 2 Peter 3:9(NLT)

In the last verse of 1 Corinthians 12 (TPT) Paul tells us, “And now I will show you a superior way to live that is beyond comparison!”

This leads us into 1 Corinthians 13, “The Love Chapter,” which gives us a description of love, a tutorial for loving others.

The beginning verses of the chapter tell us that we can be extremely gifted and talented, have great knowledge and a large faith, but if we don’t have love for others, we are nothing. Let that thought sink in. 

The Passion Translation goes on in verse 4 to say,

“Love is large…and incredibly patient.”

From my own relational failures I discovered that my capacity to love others is directly related to how well I believe I am loved by God. As we continue to grow in the comprehension of who He is and the magnitude of His love for us, we gain compassion and the ability to give love to others from His never-ending love. 

On the other side of this verse, our “incredible” patience, or the lack of it, reveals and exposes what we believe about ourselves. Self-importance, our own pride, destroys relationships. An inflated view of one’s self and how things “should” operate becomes a driving force, often from insecurities and fears. Consequently, our impatience causes us to press and prod others, expecting more than what is given. I know this was true of me; just ask my family. I wanted things done my way and in my timeframe. How selfish and prideful of me. Do you identify? 

Patience, a fruit of God’s Spirit, is the practice of waiting without complaining. It counters our pride. Patience is an offering of grace and mercy from a posture of humility, focusing on others above ourselves. It is the activation of restraint, power under control, willingness to wait, and deference of anger.

“Incredible” patience is developed in humbly and expectantly waiting for the Spirit of God to move in your circumstances without spilling a string of unkind words, without manipulating the situation, without focusing on yourself. Love, expressed by patience, takes the necessary time. It waits well. It listens. 

Whether in response to annoyance, or enduring for a long-awaited hope, your level of patience reveals the depth, strength, and source of your love. Patience understands and believes that God loves you so much that He sees you, has everything in control, and is working all for your good and His glory, even when it seems impossible. In my own life, being patient with myself was the beginning of being patient with others.

If loving with patience is difficult for you, connect to the Source of true love. Ask for His power and ability to love others with patient expectancy rather than demonstrating your impatient expectations. Thank Him for being patient with you. Through His mighty love, you will become a patient person and your love will expand!

“With tender humility and quiet patience, always demonstrate gentleness and generous love toward one another, especially toward those who may try your patience.” Ephesians 4:2 TPT

from Love Is a Person by Robin Meadows

‘Even before he made the world, God loved us and chose us in Christ to be holy and without fault in his eyes. God decided in advance to adopt us into his own family by bringing us to himself through Jesus Christ. This is what he wanted to do, and it gave him great pleasure. So we praise God for the glorious grace he has poured out on us who belong to his dear Son. ‘ Ephesians 1:4-6(NLT)

‘And you must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, all your mind, and all your strength.’ The second is equally important: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ No other commandment is greater than these.”’ Mark 12:30-31(NLT)

‘So now we can tell who are children of God and who are children of the devil. Anyone who does not live righteously and does not love other believers does not belong to God.
Love One Another
This is the message you have heard from the beginning: We should love one another. ‘ 1 John 3:10-11(NLT)

‘We know what real love is because Jesus gave up his life for us. So we also ought to give up our lives for our brothers and sisters. If someone has enough money to live well and sees a brother or sister in need but shows no compassion—how can God’s love be in that person? Dear children, let’s not merely say that we love each other; let us show the truth by our actions. Our actions will show that we belong to the truth, so we will be confident when we stand before God. Even if we feel guilty, God is greater than our feelings, and he knows everything.’ 1 John 3:16-20(NLT)

‘Dear friends, let us continue to love one another, for love comes from God. Anyone who loves is a child of God and knows God. But anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love. God showed how much he loved us by sending his one and only Son into the world so that we might have eternal life through him. This is real love—not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as a sacrifice to take away our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us that much, we surely ought to love each other. No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us.’ 1 John 4:7-12(NLT)

‘That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.’ 2 Corinthians 12:10(NLT)

The entire message of God’s written word is based only on one thought, one idea, one Person: Love. 

Love is the reason—the compelling force of our existence, the answer to why we were born. God, who is love, created us from love, for love, to love. It is His greatest command for us—to love Him and others and to experience joyful relationships from that love.

When our loving God offered His only Son as a sacrifice and covering for our sins, it was the greatest expression of His love for you and me. Most of us have experienced this transformational vertical love from God, yet we may have a very difficult time and often miserably fail with our horizontal relationships—our spouses and kids, our parents, our friends, and our co-workers. In our failure to give love to others we’ve lost marriages, friends, jobs, or maybe just our temper. 

The problem is that our love burns out. It wears thin and dries up from feelings that have faded and changed or from painful experiences that have shut us down.

For love to last and not fail, we must have a source of perfect love from which to draw, one that is greater than the depth of our own abilities, feelings, and emotions. If God is love, will He ever run out of love? Is there a limit to His great love? 

The answer is no. And as long as we are connected to that endless Source and because of the magnitude of His love for us, there should never be a time we aren’t able to offer and demonstrate love to others.

Yet, we all fail. Thankfully, when we turn to Him He overwhelms all our failures with His generous grace and mercy, offering us new beginnings. We can move forward from our failures by holding to the truth that God calls us His own. Our weakness is His greatest strength.

As we practice loving others, we may take one step forward and two steps back. But as we continue to make room for Him and remain in His never-failing, eternal, Niagara Falls of love, our response toward others will be to always love, always serve, always give. Our ability to love will never be exhausted because love isn’t just a feeling or an emotion. Love is a Person. He is for us, He is with us, and He empowers us from His great love to love others, far beyond what we think is possible. 

Continue with me in the next few days as we read more about practicing the high calling of loving others from His great love. 

“Our love for others is our grateful response to the love God first demonstrated to us.”  1 John 4:19 TPT

Consider reading today’s scriptures from The Passion Translation (TPT)

from Love Is a Person by Robin Meadows