‘Now Rebekah had a brother named Laban, who ran out to meet the man at the spring. He had seen the nose-ring and the bracelets on his sister’s wrists, and had heard Rebekah tell what the man had said. So he rushed out to the spring, where the man was still standing beside his camels. Laban said to him, “Come and stay with us, you who are blessed by the Lord ! Why are you standing here outside the town when I have a room all ready for you and a place prepared for the camels?” So the man went home with Laban, and Laban unloaded the camels, gave him straw for their bedding, fed them, and provided water for the man and the camel drivers to wash their feet. Then food was served. But Abraham’s servant said, “I don’t want to eat until I have told you why I have come.” “All right,” Laban said, “tell us.” “I am Abraham’s servant,” he explained. “And the Lord has greatly blessed my master; he has become a wealthy man. The Lord has given him flocks of sheep and goats, herds of cattle, a fortune in silver and gold, and many male and female servants and camels and donkeys. “When Sarah, my master’s wife, was very old, she gave birth to my master’s son, and my master has given him everything he owns. And my master made me take an oath. He said, ‘Do not allow my son to marry one of these local Canaanite women. Go instead to my father’s house, to my relatives, and find a wife there for my son.’ “But I said to my master, ‘What if I can’t find a young woman who is willing to go back with me?’ He responded, ‘The Lord , in whose presence I have lived, will send his angel with you and will make your mission successful. Yes, you must find a wife for my son from among my relatives, from my father’s family. Then you will have fulfilled your obligation. But if you go to my relatives and they refuse to let her go with you, you will be free from my oath.’ “So today when I came to the spring, I prayed this prayer: ‘O Lord , God of my master, Abraham, please give me success on this mission. See, I am standing here beside this spring. This is my request. When a young woman comes to draw water, I will say to her, “Please give me a little drink of water from your jug.” If she says, “Yes, have a drink, and I will draw water for your camels, too,” let her be the one you have selected to be the wife of my master’s son.’ “Before I had finished praying in my heart, I saw Rebekah coming out with her water jug on her shoulder. She went down to the spring and drew water. So I said to her, ‘Please give me a drink.’ She quickly lowered her jug from her shoulder and said, ‘Yes, have a drink, and I will water your camels, too!’ So I drank, and then she watered the camels. “Then I asked, ‘Whose daughter are you?’ She replied, ‘I am the daughter of Bethuel, and my grandparents are Nahor and Milcah.’ So I put the ring on her nose, and the bracelets on her wrists. “Then I bowed low and worshiped the Lord . I praised the Lord , the God of my master, Abraham, because he had led me straight to my master’s niece to be his son’s wife. So tell me—will you or won’t you show unfailing love and faithfulness to my master? Please tell me yes or no, and then I’ll know what to do next.” Then Laban and Bethuel replied, “The Lord has obviously brought you here, so there is nothing we can say. Here is Rebekah; take her and go. Yes, let her be the wife of your master’s son, as the Lord has directed.” When Abraham’s servant heard their answer, he bowed down to the ground and worshiped the Lord . Then he brought out silver and gold jewelry and clothing and presented them to Rebekah. He also gave expensive presents to her brother and mother. Then they ate their meal, and the servant and the men with him stayed there overnight. But early the next morning, Abraham’s servant said, “Send me back to my master.” “But we want Rebekah to stay with us at least ten days,” her brother and mother said. “Then she can go.” But he said, “Don’t delay me. The Lord has made my mission successful; now send me back so I can return to my master.” “Well,” they said, “we’ll call Rebekah and ask her what she thinks.” So they called Rebekah. “Are you willing to go with this man?” they asked her. And she replied, “Yes, I will go.” So they said good-bye to Rebekah and sent her away with Abraham’s servant and his men. The woman who had been Rebekah’s childhood nurse went along with her. They gave her this blessing as she parted: “Our sister, may you become the mother of many millions! May your descendants be strong and conquer the cities of their enemies.” Then Rebekah and her servant girls mounted the camels and followed the man. So Abraham’s servant took Rebekah and went on his way.’ Genesis 24:29-61(NLT)
There’s so much amazing imagery found in the story of Isaac and his betrothal to Rebekah. We can really see the Jewish wedding customs at play here.
To recap, Abraham sent his servant to find his son Isaac a Jewish bride. His servant was extremely prayerful, asking God to show him the right woman. Rebekah was Jewish and a distant relative of Abraham. She was said to be very beautiful and a virgin.
The servant spotted Rebekah by the well and she immediately offered him a drink of water from her water jar. How did God make it clear that Rebekah was the right choice? She not only gave him a drink—she went on to water all 10 of his camels. This girl was a total overachiever!
To appreciate the full gravity of this task, it’s important to note one camel can drink 53 gallons of water in 3 minutes. It could have amounted to 530 gallons of water to satisfy these thirsty camels, so this would have required a lot of work on her part going back and forth gathering water for them. It was a true act of sacrifice.
Rebekah went above and beyond to serve a man she didn’t know without expecting anything in return. We see so much of her amazing character revealed in the way she treated a stranger.
I can assure you that based on this evaluation, I would not have been chosen. I get stranger danger, plus camels scare me. I think they’re cute, but I don’t want to pet them. They smell. (Moving on.)
As Abraham’s representative, his servant discussed the wedding contract, bride-price, and wedding gifts with Rebekah and her family. She had a choice in this process—and she accepted!
Let’s now look at the many parallels between this bride, Rebekah, and the bride of Christ.
First, the father chose the bride, just as our heavenly Father chooses us. Jesus will return for a pure bride made new in Him.
Rebekah was found to be faithful, going above and beyond with a servant’s heart. Her heart was pure and God blessed her for her hospitality. Let this be a reminder to us all to remain faithful to God right where we are. We never know when a divine assignment is on its way!
The servant found her at a well, which we learned yesterday holds rich symbolism of life. He then paid a bride-price for her, just as Jesus paid the price for our sins on the cross.
Rebekah had the choice to become betrothed to Isaac, a man she had not yet seen. As believers, we haven’t yet seen Christ, but we choose Him by faith and become betrothed to Him when we say yes.
Finally, the servant showered Rebekah and her family with gifts, just as Jesus gives us the gift of His Spirit and covers us with a garment of salvation.
Isn’t the symbolism in this story so amazing? There are so many parallels between this betrothal and our relationship with Christ. I love how God gives us glimpses throughout His Word that apply to our spiritual life with Him.
We’ll pick back up and explore the ending of this betrothal scene tomorrow!
from Will You Marry Me?