‘Jesus’ disciples then said to him, “If this is the case, it is better not to marry!” “Not everyone can accept this statement,” Jesus said. “Only those whom God helps. Some are born as eunuchs, some have been made eunuchs by others, and some choose not to marry for the sake of the Kingdom of Heaven. Let anyone accept this who can.”
Jesus Blesses the Children
One day some parents brought their children to Jesus so he could lay his hands on them and pray for them. But the disciples scolded the parents for bothering him. But Jesus said, “Let the children come to me. Don’t stop them! For the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to those who are like these children.” And he placed his hands on their heads and blessed them before he left.’ Matthew 19:10-15(NLT)
Thoughts on the message
Marriage is not for everyone. That is what Jesus is saying. The challenge of marriage is that it takes so much effort and work to do it the way God requires. Both husband and wife need this mentality so that it works.
Getting in the way of children coming to Jesus. Stopping anyone coming to Jesus. Be careful that we do not say or do anything that causes children to stay away from Jesus. Jesus rebuked His disciples and He rebukes His church today for the same things. Take some time before God and ask Him to reveal if we are doing anything that stops people from coming to Jesus.
Prayer
Father, today You remind me of the challenge of being Your disciple. I must have not just an understanding of You, but a commitment to have Your heart for people. How do I do it, Lord? How can I speak with integrity and speak with Your heart? Fill me with Your Spirit, Lord. The Spirit of wisdom, understanding, counsel, power, knowledge and the Fear of the Lord. Most of all with the Spirit of the Fear of the Lord so that I never speak words that bring dishonor to You, Your name, Your bride or cause other people to do any of these. In Jesus’ name. Amen.
from Forgiveness & Marriage—Disciple Makers Series #19