‘Since they are no longer two but one, let no one split apart what God has joined together.”’ Matthew 19:6(NLT)
‘Fools think their own way is right, but the wise listen to others.’ Proverbs 12:15(NLT)
‘Plans go wrong for lack of advice; many advisers bring success.’ Proverbs 15:22(NLT)
Devotional Content:
My dream is for every marriage to be awesome.
Protecting a marriage from the disaster of divorce starts long before a couple stands at the altar and continues through their lifetime together.
Here is a plan of action to help you prepare for a marriage that will last:
First step: If you are dating, ask yourself if your relationship is high risk for divorce. Too many couples fall in love and get married before ever really seriously looking at the relationship. Look hard and deep into the relationship first. Make sure you are making the right decision. Although breakups are hard and painful, it’s much less painful than a divorce.
Step two: If you are married, commit to improve your marriage. Marriage is not something we do and then coast for 50 years. An awesome marriage takes work. Always be working at improving your marriage.
Step three: If you are single or married, find other couples with good marriages. Allow them to mentor you. Surround yourself with good examples of healthy marriages.
Step four: In marriage, agree to get help if you are ever faced with a marriage crisis. Sometimes the hurt, pain, and exhaustion can be unbearable and you need to ask for help. Help is available to anyone who asks. Help comes in many forms: Christian counselors, pastors, good friends and family, and even good books.
Today’s Challenge:
Dr. Kim shares that protecting a couple from the disaster of divorce starts long before the altar. Take time to sit down and think this week. Ask yourself: Is this relationship you are in at a high risk for divorce?
Going Deeper:
What step will you take today to ensure that you are prepared for a strong, healthy marriage?
from Getting Yourself Ready for Marriage 1: The Tough Questions by Dr. Kim Kimberling